Making death the most conscious experience of your life. 

Welcome to the Academy of Living and Dying, where you receive artful guidance for preparing for the end of life, moving through grief, and creating a legacy that truly matters.

The Institute is designed to help
those who want to prepare for the inevitable moment of death and know its better early than later, those who are facing mortality and want support now, and those who want to become death doulas themselves. 

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Did you know?

  • Death Isn’t Cheap: The median cost of a full funeral with viewing and burial in the U.S. is about $8,300 — and with viewing and cremation it’s about $6,280.

  • Since 2004, average funeral costs have increased roughly 27 %.

  • Globally, cremation is estimated to produce around 6.8 million metric tons of CO₂ annually — about 0.02 % of global CO₂ emissions.

  • Cremation releases mercury (from dental fillings) and particulate matter that can harm air and water quality.

  • Cremation furnaces often require 1400–1800 °F (760–980 °C) to fully burn a body and container, consuming significant fuel.

  • Traditional burials use vast materials each year, including millions of board feet of hardwood for caskets, thousands of tons of steel, and 1.6 million tons of concrete for burial vaults — all energy-intensive to produce.

  • In the U.S., cemeteries collectively cover an estimated 1.4 million acres of land.

  • Embalming fluid use in the U.S. is estimated at 800,000 to 4.3 million gallons annually, often containing formaldehyde-based chemicals that can leach into soil.

  • A typical human cremation releases around 250–540 kg of CO₂ - about the same as driving a car 470–600 miles.

  • Natural burial alternatives (no vaults, biodegradable shrouds) greatly reduce emissions and land use relative to traditional burial or cremation.

  • Caskets come in many materials — wood, metal, fiberglass, and composites — but many (especially metal and hardwood-finished ones) delay decomposition and require concrete vaults for burial.

  • Some innovative alternatives like mycelium (mushroom) coffins are designed to biodegrade and return nutrients to the soil within a few years.

  • The Cremation Association of North America projects that up to 80 % of deaths may involve cremation by around 2035, up from lower percentages today.

  • Green funeral choices (biodegradable burials, tree memorials, aquamation) are growing as people look for meaningful, eco-friendly alternatives.

  • The global green burial market is projected to grow at over 7 % annually through 2032, driven by environmental concern and land scarcity.

  • A basic metal casket in the U.S. averages about $2,500, while a wood casket averages about $3,000. Embalming alone often costs around $775–$845. Cemetery plots can add $2,000–$5,000 or more on top of funeral and burial costs.

  • There are over 700 dedicated natural burial grounds in the United States alone - double the number just a decade ago. In the UK, natural burial sites have increased by more than 50 % over the last 10 years, reflecting rising demand for eco-friendly rest.

  • Mushroom-based mycelium burial pods are now being used in several countries; they can break down the body while detoxifying soil.

  • Eco caskets made from bamboo, seagrass, willow, and banana leaf can biodegrade within 6 months to 3 years, compared to decades for traditional hardwood or metal.

  • Mycelium burial pods draw on fungal networks to convert ashes and nutrients back into soil biology, often used in reforestation burial projects.

  • Aquamation (alkaline hydrolysis) uses up to 90 % less energy than flame-based cremation and produces no direct carbon emissions. Water-based body disposition systems have grown by more than 30 % in the last 5 years in North America alone

  • Promession - freeze-drying bodies with liquid nitrogen, then shaking them into a powder for burial — was developed in Sweden and is gaining ground internationally.

  • Green burials can reduce carbon output by up to 30 – 40 % compared with traditional cemeteries because they avoid embalming and concrete vaults.

  • A traditional burial vault (concrete liner) can contain ~1,000 kg of concrete and steel, whereas a natural grave requires none.

  • Traditional burial uses millions of board feet of hardwood each year globally — a resource eco-burial alternatives purposefully avoid.

  • In the Netherlands, “burial forests” (boomgraven) allow families to choose a tree seedling instead of a headstone, which grows over the grave.

  • Japan’s ancient tradition of burial in mountain plots is being reimagined with eco options to address overcrowding and land scarcity.

  • New Zealand and Australia have seen a growth of private eco burial parks with native plantings and ceremonial spaces for ashes return.

  • In some Nordic countries, crematoriums now offset CO₂ emissions by investing in wind or solar projects, making “carbon-neutral cremation” a reality.

  • Digital memorials and “virtual cemeteries” are emerging where people can plant digital trees or maintain online living legacies instead of physical markers.

  • Biodegradable urns that grow into trees (with seeds inside) are now being adopted in over 20 countries, giving families living memorial forests.

  • Some companies are developing micro-reef burial pods that become living coral habitats when placed in the ocean, actively restoring marine ecosystems.

  • Options like tree burials, reef memorials, and seed urns give families an ongoing connection with life and ecosystem renewal.

Where are you on the death journey?

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PREPARING

Someone I love is aging or sick and I want to support them in this transition or I want to plan ahead for myself and my loved ones.

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APPROACHING DEATH

I am / a loved one is transitioning soon and I want support during the actual passing.
Book a death doula now to be by your side.

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INTEGRATING

A loved one recently passed and I want support in moving through the grief.

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Free Toolkits to help you navigate grief and mortality:

Grief Toolkit

A compassionate toolkit designed to help people to navigate grief with grace and

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Pre-death Toolkit

A practical guide to prepare emotionally, spiritually, and practically for death.

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When grief feels overwhelming or death feels near, you do not have to walk through it alone.

These are sacred and vulnerable moments. Having experienced, professional support can bring steadiness, clarity, and deep care during these times of transition.

Investing in this work may be one of the most meaningful commitments you make to your emotional and spiritual well-being.

You may also choose to offer these sessions as a gift to someone you love who is navigating grief of any kind.

Personalized Support Sessions
Grief Integration & End-of-Life Preparation.

1-on-1 Session (1h)
CA$150.00

“Only when we truly understand death can we truly understand life.”

-Gabrielle Bonneville

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Upcoming Death Doula Training 2027

Want to become a Death Doula?

We are creating an incredible 7-month professional training beginning January 1, 2027, which will equip students with the skills, ethics, and presence required to support end-of-life transitions.

Registration is now open for those ready to work at the edge of life with clarity and integrity.